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Sex & Relationships =A history of anal sex= Flicking through anthropological texts yields a pathetic number of references to heterosexual anal sex. Is this because researchers assume that it's only for homosexual guys? Those researchers are missing a trick. Our resident sex anthropologist Florence Walker investigates
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BY FLORENCE WALKER

Tuesday 17 November 2015 Flicking through anthropological texts yields a pathetic number of references to heterosexual anal sex. Is this because researchers assume that it's only for homosexual guys?

Those researchers are missing a trick. Our resident sex anthropologist Florence Walker investigates

Sex Pots
GETTY IMAGES The Ancient Greeks weren't the only peoples to have had a mania for portraying sex acts in clay. Between 100AD and 800AD in Northern Peru, the Moche culture production of pottery exploded.

Archaeologists have unearthed 10,000 pots. The vessels baffled scholars who tried to tackle their subject matter. Here's why: there's so much anal sex.

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BY LOU STOPPARD Explanations for their mania range from showing a form of birth control to the pots making sense of new political power structures.

In this instance, contraception isn't necessarily the driving factor behind entering through the rear. As we've seen before, a correlation between vaginal sex and pregnancy isn't always made by participants.

A pot depicting a couple engaged in anal sex while the mother breastfeeds her child points in another direction. It's possible that the Moche held similar beliefs as the people of the modern day Sambia. Semen was viewed as an important life force and this pot might suggest that they believed that receiving spunk via the mother's rectum produced milk. The sperm would be channeled through the mother's seemingly magical body to the breasts. Let's hope we never find evidence that any father's considered skipping the middle man. It's not convincing that this belief could be held among the entire population and survive outside influences over such a long time period.

GETTY IMAGES The second reason - that anal sex might be a way of the need to make sense of new political power structures - isn't much more plausible. The nearby Recuay people also made sex pots in the same era but they depicted good ol' fashioned penis and vagina sex.

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BY ELEANOR HALLS Their society was to some degree much more equal than the cosmopolitan Moche. This has led to the evaluation that the anal sex pots are trying to communicate the notion that "in every relationship, one partner has to suffer discomfort to give pleasure to the other." Hmm. Well, maybe. But this ignores the evidence that

anal sex can be bags of fun.

Risky business
You would be well advised to not treat a pelvis regime like a Bop it! toy (this one goes whizz when you spin it, pull that one for a bang, etc). Instead, the entire region is interconnected by genitospinal nerves which trigger orgasm. One of them, the pelvic nerve, transmits signals from the rectum in both sexes. Anecdotal evidence show that women have have reported earth-shattering orgasms from anal sex. Presumably the best orgasms would come from when all the nerves can be simultaneously excited - which would explain the invention of this gadget.

Let's be clear that this isn't a carte blanche for sneaking in through your girlfriend's back door, but if you are lucky enough to be given the all-clear by your partner, you're still not ready to go until you're aware of the risks.

Anal sex is classified as a "sexually risky behaviour". Anuses are delicate. The skin is very thin and unlike vaginas, arseholes are incapable of producing their own lubrication, no matter how many hours of foreplay you put into it. Lubrication is important. Without it, excessive friction causes tearing and bleeding. So lube up. For one, tearing the inside of someone's butthole seems wilfully negligent and impolite. Second, skin protects us from pathogens entering the body, so by ripping up the inside of someone's ass, you're exposing them to sexually transmitted diseases including HIV and HPV (Human Papilloma Virus which can cause anal cancer). And in case you hadn't noticed, there's a reason why so many euphemisms for anal sex include mention of faecal matter. It's because (men AND women) crap out of there. This comes with own associated risks. As ever, your best friend is a condom. And don't double dip.

Anal is the new pussy
According to Pornhub data, anal is the third most commonly searched term in the UK. A case of always wanting what you can't have? Stigma surrounding heterosexual anal sex is decreasing and more couples are reporting having at least tried it once. It isn't just the preserve of homosexual couples. Roughly a third of homosexual couples report that anal isn't part of their regular sexual repertoire. And in absolute figures, many more heterosexual couples have tried anal sex.

The mystery of the Moche sex pots remains unsolved. Fancy having a go at solving it? Better get up on it then.

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Davis Nick

Answered Jan 1

I think this has been covered already but, you at least need to try in on yourself.

We grow up (men) thinking that having any interest in anything, even your own finger linger on your sphincter, means you are gay. Kids throw around that word and idea in school, bullies use it to humiliate, girls use it for the same reason but it starts to sink into our consciousness. Men who are straight do not want to run the slightest risk of thinking they might be gay, even worse for our girlfriends, wives, friends, family members think we are. It’s incredibly ridiculous.

Now, I realize the world’s cultures are varied in their response to the question of whether someone is gay or not. Here in the US, in most cities no one cares. Yes you have assholes everywhere who call people fags or throw out judgements on people they know and don’t know and decide if someone is gay or seems gay or just pisses them off and they start rumors…this is bad for straight guys. it really bothers us. In some more rural areas of US this bullshit will get you beaten up, or even killed. This is because people are stupid, have been brainwashed by religion, the religious elders around them, the asshole coach, the asshole athlete, etc….Idiots

I’m here to say that all of that is holding straight men back. I have enjoyed anal penetration since I was a kid, I’m 50. I first showed my dildo fetish to a girlfriend who loved it. I loved it. The dildos got bigger and bigger over the years and now they are rather large. I’m not suggesting you get into large dildos, I’m just saying that my girlfriend thought it was the hottest thing in the world to watch me make one disappear, and if feels fantastic. It also feels fantastic to have freed myself of the shame put upon me by the world concerning my pure pleasure in taking it in the ass. In fact, I don’t care if anyone thinks I’m gay. It matters absolutely nothing to me.

If you’re straight and have a girlfriend or wife and have an interest in feeling something in your butt, you should really tell them so they can have fun with the experience with you. Start small of course, be clean and use lube and safe toys. If you are single, then damn, you're set. Dial up Amazon int he internets and buy some kinky items, watch some videos on xvids of guys doing it so you can get a feel for it. Don’t worry, it won’t make you gay.

If you were never worried about these things…..then your answer is simply yes, it’s awesome. Enjoy your ass. Hell, if you're really brave, find a man with a real penis to have a go. Still, it won’t mean you're gay, unless of course if you are.

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Brandyn Keller, Associates Degree Business (2004)

Answered Aug 19 · Author has 216 answers and 173.6k answer views

Yaasss babee!! For me, it just like makes me feel complete on both an emotional and physical level!

EMOTIONALLY

Emotionally, it affirms who I am! I have always been feminine and submissive, and I beg for a man to take control and dominate me! I want to please him, and worship him, and do all I can to make him happy in and out of the bedroom.

Out of the bedroom, I like to cook for him, clean for him, do his laundry, give him massages, and support and encourage him anyway I can. For example, I let him pick what we watch on TV, what movie or restaurant we go to, and where we go on road trips. He’s in charge, and I like it that way! He’s the king, and he’s appreciate of my attention and hopefully treats me like his princess!

Those feelings of course translate over to the bedroom as well, where I want to be his bitch, and please him like the sissy, slutty, fag I am! Bottoming is a submissive, trusting, and soul sharing experience. I am vulnerable and at his mercy, and he knows he can have me anyway he wants! And I love that feeling! I want him to know I am his completely, and that he can count on me to please him like no other person in the entire world!

PHYSICALLY

Physically, at age 15, when I figured out that I was 1000% gay, I knew that I was born to be a bottom! My boipussy quite literally just begs to be fucked! It like sometimes actually gets so bad, that if a man is not readily available, I fuck myself with a dildo. Unfortunately while that satisfies me for a short while, it’s not like the skin on skin pleasure I get from from a real man!

I mean for me everything about bottoming just feels so right. Feeling that my dom is getting horny by the growing, swelling, anaconda inside his pants. I can't help to get super aroused and excited when I see that he's getting turned on at the sight of my cute, smooth, little ass, and his thoughts of fucking my tight, hairless, clean, boipussy!

How I love dick, stroking it, kissing it, and licking it. Anticipating what my mouth is going to do to it, up until he has no other choice but to shove my face into his crotch! First putting my lips on the tip, to then putting it in my mouth. Feeling it grow harder with each and every second! “Suck that dick baby” he says encouragingly. “Oh yeah, give it to me stud” I respond passionately as I slobber all over his pretty cock!

But he knows what I want, and he wants that tight hole too! I need it badly, like a thirsty lost dog in the desert heat. I'm begging for it, and he loves it. Im face down, and he’s either lubing me and fingering me, or making me squirm like a little girl by eating me out. His cock soon slides into me, and it doesn’t take long for any of my discomfort to turn into tingling sensations of unbridled pleasure! I begin to moan and pant as he starts thrusting harder and deeper in me. And I let out sounds that I didn't even think I could make. But I can't help it, it feels so fucking good! My mind can't even comprehend the sense of pleasure my body is feeling, so I continue to moan as he fucks me faster and deeper. Exchanging erotic and forbidden words with my dom that end up making him want to fuck me harder. I love how he dominates me, his little sissy bitch! I want his cum. It’s my reward, and his final proof of pleasure and satisfaction. The prize I've been seeking this entire time, the prize I have earned, and the gift he wants to give me! That moment he unloads his creamy love juice into my mouth or hole, I'm finally satisfied.

CONCLUSION

I guess like what I am trying to say is there is nothing like having dick up your ass. And I guarantee that if you haven’t tried it you are probably going no way bitch haha! But I’m telling you don’t throw shade on the idea until you have experienced it. It’s fabulously wonderful!

The attempt to describe both the emotional connection and physical sensations of prostrate stimulation is useless unless you experience it! The feeling is truly euphoric, not like any other bodily pleasures sensation you have ever experienced I totally swear hun! And you will cum harder and stronger than ever before!

Bottoming and being dominated by a man is pure heaven!!!!

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Franklin Veaux, co-author of More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

Answered Feb 6 2017 · Author has 25.1k answers and 201.2m answer views

Oh hell yes. Receiving anal sex is awesome!

I am a man who very, very much enjoys receiving anal sex. Most of my girlfriends are quite proficient at pegging, which is among the most frequent sex acts I engage in. Prostate stimulation is awesome.

This is a surprisingly common taste. Many men enjoy receiving anal sex.

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Jerome Espinosa Baladad, People who know me well are surprised about my sensitivity!

Updated Oct 3 2017 · Author has 2.2k answers and 1.5m answer views

Yes.

Your enjoyment as a man receiving anal stimulation ('sex', as you termed it!) depends on 2 major things. You can't be close minded to the idea that you can actually enjoy it. And that your partner knows how to anally stimulate you. This aspect needs feedback, minutely detailed communication (not necessarily verbalized during the session) between you and your partner.

Also, you can't really know if you really do enjoy having anal sex (with you being in the receptive role, but not necessarily being passive as there are what we call 'power bottoms” in our midst), unless you engage in it. Try it, and do it with rimming, too. One very astute elder person I met remarked that rimming is just like kissing someone on the lips, orifices that actually have similar amounts of dirt, which, of course, is off topic now.

Also, start disconnecting what others may think as being in a politically disadvantaged position when you engage in sex. Nothing in it is political, unless if what you have in mind while having sex is to feel and be powerful over your partner/s. It's fun, always, and we need more of it as any overt display of sexual acts shows very much what is humanly common among us.

(from online sources)

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Jeremy Glenesk, Criminology and Philosophy graduate, living in Calgary, AB, Canada

Answered Feb 6 2017 · Author has 9.7k answers and 24m answer views

Absolutely. The prostate is stimulated during anal sex for men, which can be very highly pleasurable, and result in orgasms all on its own, without even stimulating the penis.

Many, many men (of any sexual orientation) enjoy anal sex for precisely this reason.

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Joseph Hopper, Sex, had it more than once

Answered Feb 6 2017 · Author has 4.2k answers and 3.1m answer views

Of course they can. There are a large number of nerve endings there not to mention the possibility of prostate stimulation.

And no it does not require nor make someone gay to engage in or enjoy anal sex.

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Tom Phillips, Rugby Player, Fireman, Straight, 27

Answered Apr 2 · Author has 52 answers and 107.3k answer views

A lot of men enjoy anal sex, it’s probably the most intense sexual experience a man can have. Even massaging a guys hole whilst giving a bj makes it more intense, but nothing compares to anal sex. I wasn’t keen on the idea when my gf first suggested it (she read something about it) but having done it, we’ve never looked back. It’s definitely my favourite type of sex, and I would happily forego vaginal sex and age her penetrate me.

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